Chances...
Anger, fights, arguments, complaints are all signals someone is sending you to let you know that things are terribly wrong and need your attention and intervention to improve. They may also be treated as a chance someone gives you to improve situations, be it relationships, difficult work situations, anything.
All you need to do is listen, take the chance and make the most of it. The focus should not be on the anger or the nagging, but the message behind it, the reason. Because, it is when the person has stopped complaining, stopped expressing hurt that the relationship has lost its meaning. They have given up any expectations of you. You have lost your chance. To save a marriage. To retain an employee. Lost the chance cos you didn't listen right.
